Hospice Care of Nantucket

 

A life enhancement program for persons facing life-threatening illness


SPRING 2002

   
In This Issue
Message from the Foundation President
  Advance Directives: What are they and who needs them?
  And Thou Shalt Honor..........
  Dreamcatcher Fantasy
  Educational Endeavors
  Loss in Later Life - Live via satellite conference
  Health & Spirituality Conference
  Cinco Deseos / Five Wishes


Message from the Foundation President

Dear friends,
HCONF is once again gearing up for our annual Dreamcatcher Fantasy Auction, to be held at the Galley Restaurant at Cliffside Beach on Sunday, June 9, 2002. As we prepare for this major fundraiser, which provides for the funding to support the many aspects of Hospice on Nantucket, we are, once again, reminded of the fine work, which is accomplished for the people of this community.

In addition to providing direct patient care, Hospice is a leader in stimulating community action when new needs are identified. Over the past few months, several activities, which have been initiated, include focusing on the needs of family caregivers, providing a library of resource materials to the Saltmarsh Senior Center, hosting the National Bereavement Teleconference on Loss in Later Life, and providing educational seminars for both health care professionals and the general public. A HCON website is also being developed, and will serve to extend its efforts in outreach and education.

We are deeply indebted to the community for helping to fund this important program, and we are happy that, as Hospice becomes more and more widely known, recipients of its services have expressed such a high level of satisfaction.

Corky Ranney


Advance Directives: What are they and who needs them?
By Hospice Director Charlene Thurston, R.N., A.N.P.

Advance Directives are documents that provide directions for your health care if you should become unable to communicate your wishes yourself, at the time that a health care decision must be made.
There are two types of Advance Directives: health care proxies, and living wills. People may choose to have one, or the other, or both.

While it’s a good idea to have an Advance Directive, it is not a requirement. A federal law, called the Patient Self-Determination Act, was created in order to allow people the option of stating their wishes in advance, and, thereby, maintaining some control over the healthcare they received, even if they were unable to communicate at the time when a decision had to be made. Laws in various states vary, regarding Advance Directives. In Massachusetts, Health Care Proxies are legally binding, while Living Wills are not. However, people may still create a living will to help guide their health care proxies and physicians, so that they might honor their wishes. Advance Directives are only used during the period in which the patient is unable to speak for him or herself.

A Health Care Proxy (or Durable Power of Attorney for Healthcare) is a person whom you appoint to make healthcare decisions on your behalf if you should become unable to speak for yourself. Health Care Proxy Forms are available at all healthcare organizations and attorneys’ offices, and may be completed by anyone over the age of 18. They need only be witnessed by two people, and copies are as valid as the original documents.

A Living Will is a document in which you state your wishes regarding end of life treatment, which you do or do not want, if you are unable to speak for yourself. While Living Wills are not legally binding in Massachusetts, they do serve to guide your Health Care Proxy and your doctors as to your wishes.

Who should have Advance Directives?
It’s a good idea for everyone to have a Health Care Proxy, as long as you have someone close to you whom you trust to make important healthcare decisions on your behalf. In the absence of a Health Care Proxy, physicians usually turn to your next of kin, but this can be problematic if that is not the person you’d choose to make your decisions, or, if there is no next of kin. It can also be problematic if you are widowed and have more than one child, especially if your children can’t agree on what your treatment should be.

Living Wills are valuable as guidelines about your wishes, especially if you feel strongly about what you want or don’t want for treatment. For instance, many people feel strongly that they would not want to remain on a respirator (breathing machine) if their chances for recovery to a meaningful quality of life was unlikely. It would be very helpful for families to know this, so that, if a decision were ever needed to discontinue the respirator, they’d feel assured that they were following your wishes. Such guidance would be a real gift to families who often feel burdened and guilty about making such decisions.

Beyond the documents themselves, it’s most important that you think about your values and wishes, and that you talk about them to your families, proxies, and physicians. It’s also important that you continue to think about and talk about these issues regularly over the years, so that, if things change, everyone is kept informed of your wishes. Also, copies of any Advance Directive documents should be given to your family, your proxy, and your physicians, as well as in an easily accessible location in your home. In Nantucket, we also put a copy into your medical record at the hospital.

If you’d like more detailed information about Advance Directives, you may call us at 508-825-8325. Written information, videos, and free educational consultations are available. We have also provided information to the Saltmarsh Center, and encourage you to look at websites, such as, www.partnershipforcaring.org, www.healthcareproxy.org, and www.agingwithdignity.org.

“And Thou Shalt Honor...”

Are you a family caregiver? If you are regularly helping someone take care of his or her usual activities of daily living, then you are. The caregiving role can creep up on us little by little and take us by surprise. Because our society is aging as people live longer, most of us will be caregivers to ill or aged loved ones at some time. Most of us will also probably need to receive care from family at some point in our lives.

Since both roles can be very difficult, we, at Hospice, are joining the effort of many other organizations across the nation, in helping to raise awareness and develop supportive resources for families in which caregiving is needed. Over the past few months, we have been meeting with other community health care providers, in order to begin to identify needs and gaps in services on the island, and this fall, we hope to host a community forum, in conjunction with the airing of a PBS special on caregiving called, “And Thou Shalt Honor....” We hope you’ll watch the special and participate in meeting the needs of families in Nantucket. We also invite you to contact our office for information, or check out the books & videos, which we provided to the Saltmarsh Center on caregiving.

Meanwhile, the Family Caregivers Association offers several suggestions for caregivers. Most importantly, take care of your self, your own personal needs as an individual who is doing a very hard job, and don’t allow your loved one’s illness to always have priority over meeting your own needs. It also stressed the importance of seeking and accepting information, support, and help, and seeking professional help early, if signs of depression develop. The association’s website is www.nfca.org.


Dreamcatcher Fantasy
Auction and Dinner
by Nina Hallowell Liddle

Please join us for the Ninth Annual Hospice Dreamcatcher Auction to be held on Sunday, June 9, 2002 at the Galley on Cliffside Beach.

This fabulous evening will begin with aperitifs in the restaurant, followed by a live auction and dinner served al fresco in a gala tent on Cliffside Beach. A delicious four-course dinner prepared by the Chef de Cuisine will be served with wines to complement each course. Hosts David and Geoffrey Silva together with Michael Fahey have chosen wines from many regions to lend an international flair to the event.

Once again, Rafael Osona will lend his wit and power of persuasion to the live auction. Offerings this year include many unique Nantucket experiences; fine dining in numerous cities of the northeast and destinations such as Napa Valley, Paris, London, Tuscany, and the Pacific Northwest.

Mark your calendars now as this will be an evening not to be missed!

Educational Endeavors

In February, our director, Charlene Thurston, completed a national “train-the-trainer” program, and became certified as an educator of nurses in end-of-life care. Hospice and palliative care nurse leaders from across the country are joining together to advance a comprehensive curriculum on all aspects of quality end-of-life care, in order to educate as many mainstream healthcare nurses as possible in the standards and skills necessary to improve care for patients with life-threatening illness. The nursing movement is parallel to a national effort for physician education, and is supported by the Robert Woods Johnson Foundation’s Last Acts Initiative.

As follow-up to the training, Charlene presented the first of two continuing education sessions on pain management planned for the nursing staffs of the hospital and Our Island Home, as well as a class for future nursing assistants at Our Island Home. Further professional education will be offered throughout the year.


Loss in Later Life
A Live via Satellite Teleconference

As we go to press, Hospice is hosting the 9th Annual Living with Grief Teleconference on April 24th.
This year’s conference, which focuses on “Loss in Later Life,” features a panel of experts who explore the challenges and opportunities that older persons experience as they face loss and make critical decisions about end-of-life issues. As always, the panelists, moderated by Cokie Roberts of ABC News, provide insight and practical suggestions to professionals and to the lay public.

We anticipate that the conference will be attended by about 40 people locally, as we join with thousands of others who will be participating from around the country.

We are very grateful to the Nantucket Public Schools for the space, and particularly to Suzanne Gardner for her time and technical support in downlinking this conference.
Health & Spirituality Conference

Efforts are underway in planning for this fall’s Health & Spirituality Conference, and Hospice is, once again, happy to be joining with a cross-section of community members who make up the Steering Committee for what has become a most inspiring annual event. Co-chaired by Rev. Georgia Snell and Dr. Robert Slater, this will be the fourth year in which the conference will be held.

Last year’s theme of “Care of the Soul,” with well known author and international speaker Thomas Moore, was hugely successful and received rave reviews by its over 120 participants. A large variety of afternoon workshop sessions with local experts gave participants an opportunity to focus on a particular area of interest, and to experience various healing modalities.
There is less and less question that attending to our spiritual well-being is a crucial element of our overall health and wellness. To those of us who work in hospices, there’s little doubt that patients and families who’ve developed a healthy spiritual dimension in their lives, seem to do better, when faced with crisis.

Joining with this task force to bring a high quality conference to the people in our community is very much in keeping with our mission. We wholeheartedly encourage everyone to attend. Watch for the date this fall..
Cinco Deseos/ Five Wishes

Five wishes is one type of detailed advance directive, which combines a living will and a health care proxy. Since we have these available in English and Spanish, we thought we’d print some information about them in Spanish for our Hispanic population. Please share this with your Hispanic friends and employees.

En la vida hay muchas situaciones que estan fuera de nuestras manos. Sin embargo, este documento CINCO DESEOS le permite tomar el control sobre algo muy imortante—como desea que lo traten cuando este gravemente enfermo. Es un documento muy facil de comprender que le permite expresar exactemente lo que usted desea. Una vez que lo complete y lo firme debidamente, es valido bajo las leyes de casi todas los estados.

Que son los Cinco Deseos?

Cinco Deseos es una ultima disposicion en vida que habla sobre sus necesidades personales, emocionales y espirituales, asi como sus deseos sobre el tratamiento medico que usted desea. Le permite escoger a la persona que desea designar para que tome decisiones por usted cuando usted no lo pueda hacer. Cinco Deseos le permite expresar como desea que lo(a) traten si esta gravemente enfermo Fue escrito con la ayuda de American Bar Association Commission on Legal Problems of the Elderly, conjuntamente con los expertos nacionales en asuntos sobre el cuidado al final de la vida. Es un documento muy facil de usar. Solo tiene que marcar la cailla indicada, o escribir sus deseos.

Como puede ayudarle Cinco Deseos a usted y a su familia.

Le permite comunicarle a su familia, sus amistades y su medico como desea que lo traten cuando este gravemente enfermo.
Sus familiares no necesitan tratar de adivinar lo que usted desea. Los protege a ellos cuando usted este gravemente enfermo de tener que tomar decisiones importantes sin saber cuales son sus deseos.

Cinco Deseos le permite conocer cuales son los deseos de sus padres, su esposo(a) o sus amistades. Asi podra darle su apoyo cuando mas ellos lo necesitan. Usted podra conocer lo que ellos realmente desean.

Para copias de Cinco Deseos o información y ayuda adicionales, por favor nos llama o viene a nuestra oficina de Hospice entre 8AM y días laborables 1PM. Nuestra oficina se localiza en el Hospital de Casita de Nantucket. Telefónico 508-825-8325.

“Cinco Deseos” printed with permission of Aging With Dignity.



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